A new year approacheth! I feel like a summary of 2014 would read much like my summary of 2013. It makes me sad to think that not much has changed. I didn’t stick to the resolutions I made for the year, and I honestly feel that maybe setting resolutions, especially many (and sometimes difficult) resolutions is like setting myself up for failure. I struggle with a lot of the things that I tend to focus on when I set goals and resolutions, so maybe that’s not the greatest idea. But, enough of that. I just want to talk a little about some of the things that happened this year, and mention a few of my hopes for the coming year.
Not to start off on a sad note, but because it is one of the first things that occurred this year, we had to say goodbye to our kitty Hide the day after I posted my New Year’s post and mentioned that he’d been sick. So, we’re coming up on a year since that happened, and I still miss him so much that it sometimes brings tears to my eyes all over again. However, we have now given a home to a new family member. Not that Hide can ever be replaced. But around the middle of the year, Simon came to live with us from some family members who couldn’t give him the life he deserves. He’s only about two years old, and Sebastian is loving having another cat around again. They wrestle all the time, and I’m so happy to have Simon as part of our family.
This year marked my first time to cosplay. I dressed as a punk-rock version of Princess Bubblegum from Adventure Time. My A-Kon crew joined me for an Adventure Time Princess Party! There are some things I would have changed about my costume, looking back. However, I had a lot of fun! Of course, I always have a lot of fun with my babes at A-Kon.
I set and reached my goal of writing 25,000 words for Camp NaNoWriMo in July. That was a HUGE accomplishment since I’ve struggled so much with my writing recently. Of course, I haven’t written much since then, but it certainly made me think a lot about where my story is going. I just need to get back to it and make writing more of a priority, even when it’s difficult.
I participated in GISHWHES for the first time! It was an exhausting week, but I had so much fun with Lilian, Chantel, and all our wonderful team mates! I was kind of nervous going into it, but we accomplished a lot more than I originally thought we’d be able to. And aside from getting dehydrated and almost passing out from being buried up to my neck in sand at the beach in the horrible South Texas heat, it was a great time!
Additionally, my little car that I’d been driving since it was brand new in 2002 started to act up on me. Driving it was getting a bit scary, so I finally got into a newer (2012) car. I’ve been super happy with it so far! And the fact that it has heated seats for when it’s cold, like it has been this week, makes me even happier.
And as usual, I’ve read lots of good books (hello, obsession with The Mortal Instruments series), and listened to lots of great music.
On top of that, I’m expected a new mattress any time now. I’ve put off getting a new mattress for far too long, and I’m extremely excited to be starting off a new year on a comfy new bed. *Presses face to the window watching for the UPS truck).
As far as my hopes for the new year, here are a few:
Get a new job, dammit! I’m so tired and frustrated with where I’m at and have been for way longer than I should have ever let myself stay there. It’s time for a change. I just need to stop doubting myself and being so scared.
Lose weight and get healthier. I know I’ll feel so much better in so many ways if I do. On that note, I’m going to incorporate Shakeology into my eating-healthier-diet. I figure it doesn’t hurt to give it a try and see how I like it.
Write! Write so much more, and do something with it. Figure out what I need to do with a potential children’s story I wrote for one of my creative writing classes, and keep working on the many stories I’ve started and have yet to finish. Focus and get something finished!
Blog more, see friends more (even though this is sometimes hard because of schedule and location conflicts), read even more, be kinder to myself, learn more, spend more time outside, save more, and smile more.
I’m sure there’s a lot more I could say I want to do in the coming year, but maybe I should just go with the flow. Take it a day at a time. A week, a month, a season at a time, and set my goals accordingly. I’ll probably be asleep before the arrival of the new year since I have to work in the morning. And I know it’s going to be a long, busy, and tiring day tomorrow, but I’m going to try to welcome the new year with a smile.
I hope any of you who happen to take the time to read this have had a beautiful year, and I hope your new year starts with a spark and is filled with love and magic.